When you’re ready to stop seeing yourself as “the one who was wronged” or “the victim” then this post – no, this entire blog – is for you.
But, if you’re still (perhaps unknowingly) playing the role of martyr in your own life, then most of what’s crafted here will make you really uncomfortable. I hope you’ll read it anyway.
Ok, so, speaking of reading, I’m in the throes of this amazing book! When I’ve finished it, I’ll offer up a full review. Meantime, the content is challenging me in the most spiritual and visceral of ways. It’s the concept of alignment on steroids! It’s super-charging my passion for encouraging people to make meaningful life changes and realize their true desires.
If you already have everything your heart wants – YAY YOU!!! But for those of us who don’t (yet), we need to keep evolving and refining. Shaking things up. And, isn’t it the very concept of change that keeps us so, stuck?
Think about it.
Our fear of change immobilizes us in much the same way as the suffering we feel from maintaining the status quo does.
Go ahead, re-read that last sentence. It’s powerful.
I can’t tell you what changes you need to make in your life to be the happiest person you know. But, I can tell you that as someone who is on the journey real-time, I’m learning there is an uplifting sense of freedom in knowing you’re simply moving. You’re not yet victorious, but you’re not doomed either.
I’m learning that as groundless and uncertain as change seems, you absolutely must interrupt old ways of thinking, working, exercising, loving, even existing, in order to make way for your heart’s desires.
You also have to be accountable. Look back on all of the choices you made and ahead to the changes you’ll make. Own them.
You didn’t think it would be easy… did you?
More to come,
Tanya B.
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