Divorce isn’t over when the marriage is, or even when the judgement is signed. It keeps going and going and going.

Sometimes I have advice and sometimes I need to get real and vent too. It’s more relatable and authentic that way any way.

In honor of my bad ass, take no shit, survivor, fighter, mom on her heavenly birthday, here we go:

  • If you want to do less driving, start paying what you owe so things feel more equitable 
  • Get therapy, you have pain you’re not dealing with and it clouds your judgement 
  • If you’re co-habitating with a romantic partner, your spousal support will come to an end — start budgeting 
  • If you’re using child support intended for the minors to fund college for the adult kid instead, that’s your choice but you still have to pay 1/2 the medical bills for minors — and you will pay 
  • If you can afford to go on a “recouperation” trip for your live-in romantic partner, you can afford to pay your share of your kid’s prescription
  • Also, you’ve had cosmetic surgery — so you know the difference — your kid’s needs aren’t cosmetic, crazy — try parenting 

Times up y’all — the Shuckharts aren’t funding all the operations any more ✌️.

Time. is. up. 

More to come,

Tanya S.